The Law of Love says that no matter what kind of condition, situation, or relationship you are dealing with, when you bring love to that circumstance, it will be transformed. Love is the equalizing, harmonizing, balancing, adjusting force that is ever at work throughout the Universe. At Harvard University, they actually established a research center staffed with scientists and world-renowned sociologists who conduct research studies on the power of love! What a wonderful job to have! Their findings include, that love can be deliberately produced by human beings! In other words, there is no reason why we cannot generate love, on purpose, to help ourselves and to help others.
It is wonderful to realize, as the Harvard scientists found, that you do not have to look outside yourself, waiting and hoping that love will find you, but that you can deliberately generate love for yourself and for mankind from within your own being. And, by doing so, you will unfailingly draw the perfect expressions of love into your own life. It is through your own thoughts, feelings and expectations that love is born and as you deliberately express love, it inevitably comes back to you multiplied. (i.e., The law of like attracts like!) Why would you want to generate love on purpose? Because no matter how much you know about Universal Laws, if you are not able to feel love for yourself and others, all else will seem of little value.
It is estimated that even your financial success is due only to 15% of your technical ability, and 85% to your ability to love yourself (confidence) and get along with other people. Jesus points out in the bible to a lawyer that love fulfills the whole law, meaning the whole law of healthy, happy, harmonious, successful living! (Matthew 22:40) So how do you produce and generate love? In two ways: through both personal love and impersonal love.
On a personal level, love is expressed as devotion, tenderness, kindness, approval and appreciation for yourself and those in your circle of family and friends. On an impersonal level, it is expressed in the ability to get along with others, or the extension of goodwill toward all others without attachment. However, you cannot love others or radiate love outward until you love yourself and feel it within first. I highly recommend spending just a few minutes a day deliberately generating love inward and outward by affirming, “I am now deliberately and joyously radiating Divine love to myself, my world, and to all mankind.” When you do this, and it will only take a few minutes, also think of love as a radiant light permeating your whole being and if there are any troublesome areas in your life, deliberately think of them as coming alive with the light of Divine love and being divinely adjusted. I wonder what changes will manifest in your life and in the world around you if you consciously did this everyday! Do your own semi-scientific experiment and find out!
Debra Betterly, PhD is an Integrative Wellness & Life Coach and Metaphysician whose passion is to help women in midlife master their body, mind and spirit.
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