Remember Mick Jagger’s "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometime you just might find, you get what you needdddddddddd, ah yeah!

Is it true, you can't ALWAYS get what you want? Where else have you heard this?  From well meaning parents, teachers, bosses, friends? I say, Forget That! When you know about the Universal Laws that govern your life and let them go to work for you and not against you-You can always get what you want! And, you can have what you want if you remember this one thing! In life you ALWAYS get what you WANT if you remember you're ALWAYS after the FEELING!  

Whatever you want right now is because you want the feelings you will have when you get it! Do you have what you want in your life? If not, here's what you might be doing wrong:  You might be too attached to a specific desire manifesting a certain way! ie. Specific job title, relationship with a certain person, certain type of house, car, body, specific amount of money. Don't get me wrong, specifics can create strong attraction power, but they can also create resistance.  Your desires in life give you something to focus on but, often times the more specific you get the more you don't really believe it can happen and you can get tangled up in the how's. You have to find a balance between being specific and general!

Remember you are always after the feeling not the manifestation. If you want to be specific with your object of desire, then make sure when you think about and visualize the specifics, you feel good. If being specific feels good, you're on track, if it doesn't feel good, be more general. The best approach to getting what you want is to stay focused on the FEELING you want! By doing this you will be detaching from your object of desire and allowing the Universe many possible paths to your desired outcome and let the Universe figure out the best way to bring you the feelings you desire. You are being specific but not so specific that you are creating resistance.  By using this approach you have zero resistance.

Questions to help you:

  • What is your object of desire?
  • What are the feelings you're after?
  • When you think about the specifics does it feel good or bad?
  • Are you able to use your object of desire to focus your energy but remain detached from the outcome?

Answer the above questions and get yourself into zero resistance!

PS – Today I was singing along with the Black Eyed Peas, "I GOT A FEELING!”

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Debra Betterly, PhD is an Integrative Wellness & Life Coach and Metaphysician whose passion is to help women expand their health, joy and purpose in midlife and beyond.

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